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Tool + guide · September 2026 · 6 min read

The empathy map

Six boxes about one person. The tool below adds the question no template asks: was this note heard, or was it invented in a meeting room?

Short answer

What is an empathy map?

A six-box layout holding what you know about one person: says, thinks, does, feels, pains, gains. Its job is to make a team argue about a human being rather than about “users” — which only works if the notes came from a human being.

The short version

  1. The gap between says and does is the output. When the boxes agree, you asked and never watched.
  2. It is meant to describe one observed person, not a composite. The moment it is invented, it is a persona with extra boxes.
  3. A map built in a workshop is visually identical to one built from ten interviews, and gets used the same way.
  4. An empty quadrant is usually the one nobody asked about — and often where the surprise was.

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Six boxes, and one question per note

Mark every note heard or imagined. That single switch is the difference between research and a persona — and it is the thing no empathy map template asks you for.

Says

Quotes. Their words, not your summary of them.

Thinks

What occupies them that they would not say out loud here.

Does

Observed actions. What you watched, not what they reported.

Feels

The emotion, named. Anxious about what, exactly?

Pains

Fears, frustrations and obstacles in their way.

Gains

What they want, and how they would know they got it.

Where these notes came from

67% heard
33% imagined
Paste into your research notes — provenance included.

What this cannot know. How many people are like this one. An empathy map records a single person, or a composite you assembled — and a map of an invented person has exactly the same shape as a map of a real one, which is why the provenance switch is the only honest defence.

Notes come from customer interviews, and the Mom Test is how you keep the “says” box from filling up with compliments.

Test the idea behind it

If most of your map is marked imagined, the next step is one real conversation. A 15-minute session ends with a written GO / WAIT / NO-GO and the reasoning behind it. Free tier, no card.

The failure nobody sees

Empathy maps fail in a specific and quiet way: they get filled in from memory and imagination, in a room with no customer in it, in forty productive minutes.

The resulting artefact is visually identical to one built from ten interviews. Same boxes, same sticky notes, same confident tone. It gets pinned to the same wall, quoted in the same planning meetings, and used to settle the same arguments — and nobody downstream can tell which kind they are looking at.

There is no clever fix for this, only bookkeeping: mark each note as heard or imagined when you write it, and keep the ratio visible. A map that is 30% imagined is useful and honest. A map that is 90% imagined is a persona, and knowing that changes what you are willing to decide with it.

Imagined notes are not forbidden — they are hypotheses, and hypotheses are how you know what to ask next. The damage comes from forgetting which ones they were.

The gap is the finding

The best pair of notes on any empathy map looks like a contradiction:

Says

“The spreadsheet works fine for us”

Does

Rebuilds the same pivot table every Monday morning

That pair says the problem is real and that the person has stopped noticing it — which is a much more useful thing to know than either note alone, and neither interview questions nor analytics would have produced it by themselves.

When says and does agree word for word, the usual cause is that you only asked. The tool above flags those echoes, not because agreement is forbidden, but because it is worth a second look before it goes on a wall.

What an empathy map cannot do

It cannot tell you how many people are like this. One map is one person. Five maps that rhyme are the beginning of a segment; one map is an anecdote with excellent presentation.

It cannot rank anything. Every note is the same size, and the trivial irritation sits next to the thing that loses them their job.

It cannot be checked by anyone else. Unless the provenance is written down, a reader cannot tell research from invention — which is the whole reason this version asks.

The notes have to come from somewhere

If most of your map is marked imagined, the honest next step is not a better map — it is a conversation with one real person.

A 15-minute session works through your idea across seven criteria, including whether the problem is real and whether anyone will pay, and ends with a written verdict and the reasoning behind it.

Turn assumptions into evidence →

15 min · free tier, no card

Frequently asked questions

What is an empathy map?+
A six-box layout for organising what you know about one person: what they say, what they think, what they do, what they feel, plus their pains and gains. It came out of XPLANE and was popularised by Dave Gray. Its job is to hold observations about a single human in one place so a team argues about a person rather than about "users".
What is the difference between says and thinks?+
Says is a quote — their words, in the room. Thinks is what occupies them that they would not say out loud to you, which you infer from hesitation, contradiction and what they do instead. The gap between the two boxes is the entire point of the exercise: when they match, you have written the same observation twice and learned nothing.
How do you fill an empathy map properly?+
From interviews and observation, one person at a time, with the notes written close to their own words. The failure mode is doing it in a workshop from memory and imagination — which is fast, feels productive, and produces a diagram indistinguishable from a researched one. That is why the tool on this page makes you mark every note as heard or imagined and shows you the ratio.
What does it mean if says and does contradict each other?+
That you have found something. "The spreadsheet works fine" next to "rebuilds the same pivot table every Monday" is the most useful pair of notes on the map — it says the problem is real and the person has stopped noticing it. Tension between boxes is the output; agreement between them usually means you only asked and never watched.
Is an empathy map the same as a persona?+
No, though they get used interchangeably. A persona is a composite invented to represent a segment. An empathy map is meant to be one real person, observed. The moment you build the map from imagination you have made a persona with extra boxes — which is the failure this tool exists to make visible.
Is this tool free, and does my data leave the browser?+
It is free and requires no account. Everything is computed in your browser — nothing you enter is sent to us or stored anywhere.

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